a person's attitude towards life is very important, it determines your life, which path you are taking and how your life will become. if you are a person with very strong positive outlook, no matter what difficlties you encounter, you will always look at the brighgt side of life and nevrer give up easily. the most frequent example you see are those patients or people that are handicapped or suffering ffrom some type of illness like cancer. they do not give up any glimpse of hope and continue fighting till they their last breathe. even those very determined handicapped,they do not blaame the world for their disable. instead, they are contented and blssed with all the rest the have, their family , friends and those who support them greatly. those handicapped with negative attitude towards life wil feel that the world is unfairand they life in misery and always feel that they are unless and unwanted
we often hear people say, “never give up.” these can be encouraging words and words of determination. a person who believes in them will keep trying to reach his goal no matter how many times he fails. in my opinion, the quality of determination to succeed is an important one to have. therefore, i believe that we should never give up.
one reason is that if we give up too easily, we will rarely achieve anything. it is not unusual for us to fail in our first attempt at something new, so we should not feel discouraged and should try again. besides, if we always give up when we fail, we will not be able to develop new skills and grow as people. another reason we should never give up is that we can learn from our mistakes only if we make a new effort. if we do not try again, the lesson we have learned is wasted. finally, we should never give up because as we work to reach our goals, we develop confidence, and this confidence can help us succeed in other areas of our lives. if we never challenge ourselves, we will begin to doubt our abilities.
in short, it is important that we do not give up when working for our goals. whether we succeed in the end or not, we will learn something, and what we learn will help us to become better, more confident people. furthermore, if we give up, we have non chance of attaining our goals, but if we keep trying, there is always a chance that we will succeed one day
fashion is optimistic attitude towards life. an optimistic attitude towards life and face life is useful for people's physical and mental health and career success . optimism and grief will make the opposite conclusion, feeling, the key is to look at how you think. make an optimistic outlook on life, people from your own life will be changed.
fashion is a kind of open-minded attitude towards life.it is a kind of positive and healthy attitude towards life in return. who are not fit to be tolerant of others will not be tolerant of others . this is turgenev's famous phrase. and i say, the people who are not tolerant of life, is unworthy of tolerance .
fashion is a strong attitude to life ,that is a spirit to have a dedication for their own ideals
the 21st century,let us chase fashion
attitude is everything
jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. he was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. when someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "if i were any better, i would be twins!"
he was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. the reason the waiters followed jerry was because of his attitude. he was a natural motivator. if an employee was having a bad day, jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
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motivator n. 激起行为（或行动）的人（或事物），促进因素，激发因素
seeing this style really made me curious, so one day i went up to jerry and asked him, "i don't get it! you can't be a positive person all of the time. how do you do it?"
jerry replied, "each morning i wake up and say to myself, 'jerry, you have two choices today. you can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' i choose to be in a good mood.
each time something bad happens, i can choose to be a victim or i can choose to learn from it. i choose to learn from it. every time someone comes to me complaining, i can choose to accept their complaining or i can point out the positive side of life. i choose the positive side of life."
"yeah, right, it's not that easy," i protested.
"yes, it is," jerry said. "life is all about choices. when you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. you choose how you react to situations. you choose how people will affect your mood. you choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. the bottom line: it's your choice how you live life."
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victim n. 受害人 protest v. 断言抗议 junk n. 垃圾
i reflected on what jerry said. soon thereafter, i left the restaurant industry to start my own business. we lost touch, but i often thought about him when i made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
several years later, i heard that jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. while trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination . the robbers panicked and shot him.
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thereafter adv. 其后，从那时以后 gunpoint n. 枪口 safe n. 保险柜
slip off 忘记，遗漏 combination n. 开启号码锁的号码组合
luckily, jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma （创伤，外伤）center. after 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.
i saw jerry about six months after the accident. when i asked him how he was, he replied, "if i were any better, i'd be twins. wanna see my scars?" i declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.
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trauma n. 外伤，损伤 surgery n. 外科，手术室 intensive adj. 透彻的
fragment n. 碎片，断片 decline (to) v. 拒绝
"the first thing that went through my mind was that i should have locked the back door," jerry replied. "then, as i lay on the floor, i remembered that i had two choices: i could choose to live, or i could choose to die. i chose to live."
"weren't you scared? did you lose consciousness?" i asked.
jerry continued, "the paramedics were great. they kept telling me i was going to be fine. but when they wheeled me into the emergency room and i saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, i got really scared. in their eyes, i read, 'he's a dead man.' "i knew i needed to take action."
"what did you do?" i asked.
"well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said jerry.
"she asked if i was allergic to anything. 'yes,' i replied. the doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. i took a deep breath and yelled, 'bullets!'